{"id":21,"date":"2012-08-24T04:08:50","date_gmt":"2012-08-24T04:08:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/?p=21"},"modified":"2013-02-06T12:00:56","modified_gmt":"2013-02-06T19:00:56","slug":"day-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/?p=21","title":{"rendered":"Lunch Plans"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I spent the morning\u00a0cleaning for the cleaning lady&#8217;s visit tomorrow.\u00a0 And when I say &#8220;cleaning&#8221; I really mean &#8220;tidying&#8221; and &#8220;putting away.&#8221;\u00a0 It&#8217;s just that I want her to have a completely blank canvas on which to work her magic when she comes!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also that I&#8217;m feeling really guilty about even having a cleaning lady.\u00a0\u00a0I mean, come on!\u00a0 I&#8217;ve got TIME now&#8230;so I can clean my own bleeping house!!\u00a0 Which means\u00a0the whole watching-someone-clean-my-house-even-though-I-can-clean-it-myself methodology\u00a0will soon be going away.\u00a0 So\u00a0I want to make the most of her (last&#8230;big sigh) visit.\u00a0\u00a0If I can only maximize her dusting now, I won&#8217;t have to dust again in two weeks.\u00a0 Or maybe I&#8217;ll just have to dust less?!<\/p>\n<p>Since I had my first child 10 years ago, I haven&#8217;t\u00a0cleaned my own house.\u00a0\u00a0With both of us working and wanting to spend quality time with the babies, my husband and I decided it was very worth our while to pay a\u00a0housecleaning service to free us up for the more important things in life.<\/p>\n<p>So now what?!<\/p>\n<p>In the midst of all this house-cleaning angst, I met a working friend for lunch (she paid because she knows I don&#8217;t have a job!\u00a0 Hey,\u00a0I&#8217;m not THAT lame&#8230;I picked up the tip!).\u00a0 During said lunch, we observed two woman who\u00a0had 4\u00a0Coors Lights and 3 bloody mary&#8217;s between them and got louder as lunch progressed.\u00a0 I can&#8217;t say whether\u00a0they were stay at home moms for sure but judging by what\u00a0we &#8220;overheard&#8221; there at the end,\u00a0they were.<\/p>\n<p>We also observed two women who were dressed professionally and seemed to have come from a meeting (whether they were mothers or not, I couldn&#8217;t say).\u00a0 But they\u00a0ordered Grey Goose and tonics before they ordered lunch.\u00a0 My friend and I looked at our unsweetened ice tea and we both came to the same conclusion.\u00a0 No matter what camp you fall into &#8211; working woman, stay at home mom &#8211; we&#8217;re clearly\u00a0doing our lunches all wrong.<\/p>\n<p>More drinks for everyone!!!<\/p>\n<p>Then, since my husband is out of town on a business trip, I\u00a0spent the rest of the afternoon futilely trying to replicate myself in order\u00a0to\u00a0get my children to two different activities in two different places, at the same time.\u00a0\u00a0But I would have been doing that whether I was working or not &#8211; and with just about the same degree of success.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I spent the morning\u00a0cleaning for the cleaning lady&#8217;s visit tomorrow.\u00a0 And when I say &#8220;cleaning&#8221; I really mean &#8220;tidying&#8221; and &#8220;putting away.&#8221;\u00a0 It&#8217;s just that I want her to have a completely blank canvas on which to work her magic when she comes! It&#8217;s also that I&#8217;m feeling really guilty about even having a cleaning [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":687,"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions\/687"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newstayathomemom.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}